WHICH WAY WORLD?

From the recent Ukraine crisis to the bombing devastating the north-eastern Nigeria to the disappearing of the Malaysian Airline Boeing 777-200 carrying 239 perform Kuala Lumpur to Beijing and many more heart breaking news, most times I find myself pausing and pondering  with too many questions on my mind. As at the time I was listening to CNN news on the Malaysia airline flight disappearance, it was not confirmed by the international aviation authorities on the location of the jetliner. What could have resulted to the loss of communication two hours into the flight in Vietnam’s air space on Friday 18:20 GMT? I can only imagine how the 227 passengers including two infants and 12 crew members felt, unsure of their whereabouts, flying at an altitude of 35000 feet with no previous problem about the flight they boarded! Could this be human error or a deliberate act of wickedness just to hurt these people and their families? Which brings me to the on and off bombings in the north-eastern Nigeria with at least 1300 and 130 people killed in the past two months and five days alone respectively! And it doesn’t appear to be an end in sight of these violent acts and aggravations. The response to these violent acts from the government has not been effective at best. The recent open fire attack at a high school in Nigeria on February 20 which led to the death of at least 98 people including students who were asleep in their dormitories at the time of the unfortunate incident which is considered the latest school massacre by security forces is still a bewilderment! It is not surprising that Boko Haram which is loosely translated to "western education is forbidden" has been perpetrating these wicked acts. In September 2013, about 40 students in agricultural training school in Yobe were massacred after these hoodlums stormed several dorms at night. Despite the imposing of the emergency measures which includes enhanced military presence, more than 1000 lives have been cut short in the north-eastern Nigeria. It is either Nigeria military is not properly equipped to face these bloodthirsty psychopaths or they do have all it takes but do not possess adequate and relevant skills to counter their efforts. What is the islamic law saying about this, in a Country where we are claiming democratic government? or has it become a norm to kill and forget in Nigeria? 
 With the law criminalising same-sex relationships in Nigeria which president Goodluck Jonathan  signed into law this particular bill, Nigeria may also be on the verge of losing many young minds, the impact of these loses of Nigeria minds that are potential great contributors to our society in the near future, may be extremely adverse following where the Nigeria society is today. The supports from the archbishops of Canterbury and York to the gay community, who in their letters made it clear that God loves and values the homosexual, and preached against the victimisation of people in this category is empowering for  the likes of Michael Ighodaro which I think is very remarkable and relieving . Michael recently joined a NYC Community of Nigeria Gay refugees after what he thought was a homophobic attack against him in Abuja. My point here is, is the law genuinely for the good of Nigeria as a whole or not, considering the effects these laws may have on Nigerian citizens who have found themselves gay and their immediate families? Often times, I find it unrealistic in the practical use of the word LOVE. It is not in my power to define it in the way every other person perceives it, but if you may allow me, I think Love is GOD and is a natural expression that can be expressed without reason. So if love is perceived close to what I believe (assumption), I keep wondering why there are non-stop hurts at different levels, from killings to abuse and diverse forms of negative actions brought about by selfishness Or has the world reached a certain level where control is impossible?